I Keep Trying to Get Impossible People to Love Me

I remember so many times in my early romantic relationships (and honestly, some adult friendships) when I truly did ignore all the warnings, some of them as blatant as “I do not want to be in a relationship right now.”

Elizabeth GilletteFebruary 20, 2025anxious attachment, avoidant dismissive, dismissive avoidant, avoidant attachment triggers, fearful avoidant attachment, disorganized attachment, anxious avoidant trap, attachment styleComment

Knowing Vs. Experiencing in Attachment Work

Are you the kind of person who can read article after article, book after book, and loves to absorb information and learn things? When I become interested in something, I dive right in. I want to know as much as I can.

But knowing only gets me so far.

Elizabeth GilletteAugust 19, 2022anxious avoidant dynamic, anxious attachment style, avoidant attachment style, dismissive avoidant, disorganized attachment, fearful avoidant, attachment theory, group coaching, held with elizabeth and monica, elizabeth gilletteComment

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