Posts tagged anxious avoidant attachment
Self-Sacrifice Isn’t Honorable When You’re Resentful
Self-Sacrifice Isn’t Honorable When You’re Resentful

Since the start of the year, I have been really leaning into exploring the parts of my personality that I would rather not look at—the parts I’m shameful or embarrassed about, and the ones that I try to hide or keep at bay but always, always show up at some point in my relationships.

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Did you grow up in a chaotic environment?: a peek into the disorganized attachment style
Did you grow up in a chaotic environment?: a peek into the disorganized attachment style

One of the things I share with clients all the time is the reminder that we come by our attachment patterning honestly. When we dig more deeply into this idea, we can recognize the importance of the family dynamics we experience when we are young and how those patterns shape our relationships as adults. So often, the stress of daily living becomes the soup we swim in as children.

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Elizabeth Gillettedisorganized attachment, fearful avoidant, attachment style, attachment theory, anxious avoidant attachmentComment